Couples Coaching
A healthy and fulfilling relationship does not happen by chance. What does it take to make a relationship great?
Most of us were not blessed with many healthy role-model relationships to witness and learn from. Can I offer
you and your relationship some hope? With some intentional, simple and dare I say, pretty-painless coaching,
you will feel better and your relationship will be on healthier. Many times we expect the relationship to be moving
forward (or faster) without doing the work of setting and establishing the foundation. Everything sure, solid and
steady has a strong foundation.
Couple’s Coaching Options:
1: Let the assessments speak for you! We’ll utilize three well-known assessments to discover more about who
each other are. Learning more about WHO we are in relationship with is foundational. Three hours of
coaching—2 hours coaching together and one 30 min coaching session individually. Many say this has made all
the difference in the world. It will take the guess work out of things, empower and bring a confidence to knowing
more of what to do or not do!
2: Your relationship tree! What are the roots, trunk and branches of your relationship tree? What does how
you feel in love and what you appreciate about each other have to do with it? What values are most important
for your relationship to honor? This is all about coming together as a couple. Who is the relationship, so to speak,
when you come together? This is a piece of the foundation to be decided on so the relationship can grow healthy
and in the same direction. Three hours of coaching together.
3: What does boating have to do with my relationship? Can you say…..everything! What is the type of boat
to be used? In my case, my hubby is a sailor and I’m all about speed. There’s great purpose and benefits with both
types of boating, right? How will the boat go—-a sail, motor or oars? When will the boating take place?
What about refueling? These are fun metaphors for relationship strategies that we’ll be coaching on. The strategizing
will be on communication, planning, support and action steps. When a couple has these down, there’s no where they can’t go!
Three hours of coaching together.
4: Have you and your mate set yearly goals or focuses and have them not happen? Most of the time, this can be
because the goals were not important enough for both of you or that the accountability for them wasn’t done throughout
the year. Its amazing how quickly the year can fly by. I’ve got a tool and the accountability plan for this. Two hours of
coaching together.
All four of the couple’s coaching options go together and in the above order very nicely. Or, feel free to pick and choose
one—one to start; one and done; one alone will enhance and bring value. What is your relationship foundation needing
most? Making your relationship a priority because you work to nurture, cherish and grow it is wise and worthwhile.